No matter your age, pants size or weight, not feeling confident in your own skin and with the body that you will use to have sex is a major obstacle in the way to great sex, experts say. Maybe you could do all of those things you had wanted to do on another day. I know I am not the only one in this situation but it is nice to actually hear that other people are going through the same thing. Marriage is about giving. Hollenbeck says, can leave a man unable to engage sexually with his partner. Just that it seems she might not be talking so much about the things that are bothering her and that it might benefit to try and create more opportunities to generally talk more to see if that helps get things out. Didn't get to get her brekky in bed or anything like that.
My wife isn't the least bit interested in sex and I am taking it personally. Should I?
My parents expected me to see mum on mothers day and they live close to where I work. Why bother? My father said now the last remaining sons are against him he thinks its time for him to die. Then when she has to do something around the house she complains.
My wife is really an amazing loyal and wanting to please person. I did it for her but again it turned to her thinking I would cheat never have I not been faithful in almost 12 years or even given reason for it. I never looked at relationship that way it was about partnership and being there for each other. CrashCoyote Valued Contributor. A person always has the right to say no.
That conversation is hard, and I'm certainly not there yet with my partner. Try not to feel guilty about circumstances beyond your control. I love my wife however I will not deny the sex life has dwindled away a fair bit We probably had sex once or twice a month in that time and have only just started stepping it up further because I knew how important it was in a relationship, not because I ever felt like it. All that said, I mean to pose those questions in the gentlest way and I have no idea just how much you communicate so forgive any pre judged sounding comments! I want to say that I absolutely love him and am so grateful that he is the father of my child, but I just don't feel like having sex most of the time since I've had my baby.